Practical examples:
Victim blaming: The victim of someone else's accident or bad luck may be offered criticism, that being that the victim may be at fault for having attracted the other person's hostility.
Projection of guilt: Unconsciously projected in self-defense, so that the guilt attached to the thoughts can be repudiated or turned to blame instead, in a process linked to denial.
Bullying: A bully may project his/her own feelings of vulnerability onto the target(s) of the bullying activity. Despite the fact that a bully's typically denigrating activities are aimed at the bully's targets, the true source of such negativity is ultimately almost always found in the bully's own sense of personal insecurity and/or vulnerability. Such aggressive projections of displaced negative emotions can occur anywhere from the micro-level of interpersonal relationships, all the way up through to the macro-level.
The workplace psychopath may often rapidly shift between emotions – used to manipulate people or cause high anxiety.
When Psychopaths Go to Work describe a five phase model of how a typical workplace psychopath climbs to and maintains power. In phase three (manipulation) - the psychopath will create a scenario of “psychopathic fiction” where positive information about themselves and negative disinformation about others will be created, where your role as a part of a network of pawns or patrons will be utilized and you will be groomed into accepting the psychopath's agenda.
Do not tell me what to do, but since it is xxxxx issue now recheck the document regected.
Nope. Avoid them.
Ignore the comments maintain the solution since it prevents down time.
http://hydra.csnserver.com/index.htm recorded may 2004 and yes more get it.
Anyways,
Common narcissistic defense’s include splitting, denial, projection, projective identification, primitive idealization and devaluation, distortion (including exaggeration, minimization and lies), and omnipotence.
Psychologist Marsha M. Linehan has stated that people with borderline personality disorder often exhibit behaviors which are not truly manipulative, but are erroneously interpreted as such. Sure we get that also.
Yep, monkeys on limbs tossing bananas we be.
Common purpose and the usual suspects.
Not a bad attitude issue since, planning is not a real emergency on our part if its maintained.
Manipulators can have various possible motivations, including but not limited to:
The need to advance their own purposes and personal gain at virtually any cost to others
A strong need to attain feelings of power and superiority in relationships with others
A want and need to feel in control.
A desire to gain a feeling of power over others in order to raise their perception of self-esteem
Boredom, or growing tired of his/her surroundings, seeing it as a game more than hurting others
Covert agenda, criminal or otherwise, including financial manipulation (often seen when the elderly or unsuspecting, unprotected wealthy are intentionally targeted for the sole purpose of obtaining a victim's financial assets)
Next on the reading list.
Braiker, Harriet B. (2004). Who's Pulling Your Strings ? How to Break The Cycle of Manipulation.
ISBN 0-07-144672-9.
Ignore the noise. Mistakes do exist and Ghandi always was a winner.
